“The love of others is good, but self-love is essential.”
– A young and very interesting author whose writings speak to many:
“Nothing compares to the strength of the person who loves and supports you without measure.
Regardless of who leaves your life, you always stay and it is your love for you that sustains you.
All love can be temporary, except your own.
Loving yourself teaches you to draw necessary boundaries, to better choose the places you decide to belong, to forgive yourself and the other, to be compassionate to your process, and to be committed to your evolution.
To love yourself is understanding your own timing, accepting your vulnerabilities, loving every part of your journey and seeing yourself as a being in the process of making.
We only enter into love when we understand that it first comes from within.”
– Alejandro Gruber
An intimate and brave young author who freely writes about the basic essentials for personal Soul growth and quickly gains the attention of the readers.
Here are a few more interesting passages from the book:
“Everything Your Heart Needs to Tell You”
by Alexandro Gruber:
"A person who loves their solitude is not necessarily a lonely or selfish person.
Such a person also has friendships, loves, is present where needed, helps those who need them.
But above all, it's a person who does what they love, who respects themselves, who knows their own needs, who has learned to say “No” when they should and who knows how to enjoy themselves.
A person who appreciates their own company, and has learned to make moments of solitude a moment of reflection and personal growth, not afraid of loneliness, and doesn't see it as a bad thing.
You are aware that everyone needs these moments without anyone else around, and that those who have not learned this have not yet immersed themselves in knowledge, because you only know those who are not afraid to face themselves and who do not use people and the world as distractions to not see yourself.
A person who has learned to love solitude, appreciates silence, making a relationship with himself/herself a lifelong relationship of love is a person who doesn't depend on anyone emotionally.
Such people accept company but not any company. Just a company that comes to add to their life.
They only accept those who are good for her soul, heart and growth.
A person who has learned to love their solitude dismisses superficial friendships and toxic environments.
They know that not everyone is compatible with their energy and that not everywhere is good for their own growth.
Such a person who loves others and life.
But finally came to the understanding that self-love should come first and that no other love can replace self-love.
It doesn't matter if you call it solitude or loneliness. The truth is that when a person stops being afraid of loneliness and starts to love being well with themselves, it's because that person has a strength that makes them able to flourish anywhere!"
– Alejandro Gruber
“A book about self-love, about self-knowledge, about the courage to accept yourself. A work that will help you understand what your heart is trying to communicate to you.” - said the young author
“One day you will be with someone who'll touch your soul. Someone who will be a person who lives for a great purpose and honors your existence.
Someone who respects you and knows that you are more than just a person, because you are a sacred being who deserves to live deep experiences.
More days, less days… you will meet a person like this and your relationships will no longer be based on superficial values or painful experiences.
You will know a new stage of love, a love of souls that will no longer be driven by fear or insecurity, but rather by respect, the desire to grow together and the values of the spirit.
A love from the one who spiritually strengthens you and emotionally loves you!
Activate the love energy that resides in you. Be Committed to your spirit and your evolution. The more you advance and grow, the more the level of your relationships grows! One day we will all experience the deepest levels of love!"
– Alejandro Gruber
“Loving is indispensable and also untransferable.”
This work was written to help people to connect with themselves, understand the counsel of their soul and understand the inner messages they are longing to hear.
It's a book about self-love, about valuing yourself, about growing emotionally.
"I wish you to heal from what you don't tell anyone, from those pains that you bear in silence, from the tears that flow down your face before you sleep and from all the insults that you sometimes swallow.
I wish you to heal from your fears, torments and insecurities - the ones that life sends you day after day to make you look to the Light.
I wish you to heal from those traumas, wounds, memories and disappointments that you have silenced, that you have never shared, but that you still feel deep inside.
I wish you to heal from the past, which is still within you through the emotional scars you carry without complaint.
I wish you to heal from lying, that was once said to you, from the excuses you received then, from the recognition you expected and did not receive, from the approval that did not come, from the gratitude that was not given to you, from the truth that wasn't offered to you, from all the unfair times when you deserved the best and it didn't get to you.
I wish you to heal from those pains you swallowed, cried silently, masked, buried.
The moments you swallow, cry the anger, the sadness, the suffering, the betrayal, the disappointment and you smile like that the world can't see your pain so that your smile can warm someone's heart.
I wish that as many inflict wounds on you that you suffer in silence, so others help you imperceptibly for their healing. I wish you to heal from yourself, from everything you fear, from everything you manifest and from everything you keep silent."
– Alejandro Gruber
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