Mindfulness

Inclusivity

Respect

Affection

Care

Love

Equity

A team of psychologists found that men, compared to women, were more likely to behave either extremely selfishly or extremely altruistically in experiments where people could either choose to make decisions that benefited themselves, benefited others, or benefited the overall good…

IMAGINE:

 In 100 years from now, for instance, in 2121, we will all be underground with our loved ones and friends. Strangers will live in our homes. Our property will be owned by strangers. They won't even remember us. How many of us think of our grandfather's father? We will become part of history in the memory of our generations, while people will forget our names and forms. At that time, we will realize how ignorant and deluded the dream of getting everything was. We would then like to live another life just to do good deeds, but it will be too late. Today we have the opportunity to do good for ourselves and others, the only thing that will remain forever are our good deeds in this life and life in the Hereafter. We still have time to do good deeds before it's too late. 

Testosterone is the hormone that maintains the fighting spirit needed to show aggression against injustice. We are not only under constant chemical and biological attack, but also under psychological. 

The new wave gender plan is to feminize men and make women look more masculine. Therefore, in recent years, television and media propaganda has increasingly shown only beta and gamma of the stronger sex. In songs, movies and shows, women are deliberately portrayed in male-dominated roles, while pampered men are often made up and dressed in dresses. 

This, of course, is just a trick, creating the illusion that women are given power, when in fact the opposite is true, as their protection is taken away. The strong alpha male has always been the one who cares for the safety and honor of the family.

 Girls are originally masculine and boys are feminine. The masculinity of the woman is manifested in (through) motherhood, and the femininity of the man - in the doubts on the way to the goal and the responsibility towards the weak. 

The women must perform a feat to give up motherhood to the men and begin to trust them completely. The man must perform a feat to include their masculinity and take responsibility for others. 

Feminine power is the power of acceptance. The one who can accept what is happening without protest always attracts people, because most of all people crave approval and are afraid of condemnation. Only a self-sufficient women with great inner strength are able to accept, trust and dedicate their all being, heart and mind to the ones they are with.

So, it’s not those men or women are any more or less cooperative than one another when it comes to doing good together, it’s that they choose to express their cooperative or uncooperative behavior in different ways. Men are more likely to take an “all or nothing” approach to cooperation in work, while women are more likely to be moderately cooperative across most situations.

Here, of course, is just one tiny slice of many gender differences that psychologists have identified in numerous researches throughout the years. 

A few others for example:

Women are better at recognizing facial displays of disgust.

Men experience more loneliness earlier in life while women experience similar feelings later in life.

Men spend more time relaxing than women.

Men use more abstract language to communicate…. 

Gender differences are real-real. To say that gender is some sort of mirage or a social construction would be anti-scientific. What’s important to remember, however, is that we’re all much more alike than we are different.

Returning to how to cooperate, perhaps the most interesting finding is how eager people are to cooperate with people they’ve never met. And this is true of both men and women. For instance, a very simple economic game where someone is given, say, $10, and told that they can either keep all of the money for themselves or send some or all of the money to an anonymous partner in need, many people choose to “share the wealth.” Some people defy normative economic logic by sending half or even all of the money to their anonymous suffering partner.

It’s in our nature to cooperate. When we don’t, we suffer as much as everyone else.

It is so natural to help each other. Why would we ever Forget this? And yes, MIRACLES happen …. Especially around Christmas 😊 

Shared with Joy 

A.A

Stob, Bulgaria